Her H agreed but one of the two guys she slept with kept wanting to sleep with her again and became obsessed. The other story: Wife did it twice and wanted to stop. I'm not saying that things will escalate like they have above, but if he expects you to cross this significant of a boundary now, where will it lead? You have a lot of hard thinking and tough decisions ahead of you. I think it is shameful that your husband expects you to do something like this that you don't want to do, and it is sad how it has affected your marriage. They divorced and she is now happily married with two adorable children (we've kept in touch over the years). I took her to the provost martial's office, got his command to issue a temporary protective order, and her husband was removed from their quarters. At first, she thought it was her husband but when she figured out what was going on and started screaming, the guy freaked out and left. Well, her H set it up anyway and let the guy into the house. It came to the point where he wanted to set up a "fake rape" in their house at a time when she had no idea, but she put her foot down and said no. Then he wanted her to do it with someone of a different race, and he found the partner for her and she did. Then he wanted her to do it with a woman, and she did once but hated it. She finally gave in and did it a few times, and her H would ask her to leave her phone on so he could hear. Basically, for a long time, her H wanted her to sleep with other men, but she didn't. ![]() She asked to speak to me privately and what I heard shocked me. I will share one story.Ī young woman who worked for me came in one morning looking horrible and very shaken. ![]() The only reason I found out was that both of the wives came to me after things went poorly, and as the unit commander, I had to take action out of concern for their safety. I've known two couples who tried this lifestyle. You basically put his need before yours, which is often but not always admirable in a marriage, but it was something you didn't want to do, don't want to do, and now your marriage is changed forever. I really debated posting here but will because I am so sorry that you are in this situation. Has anyone else gone through this? I love him and don't want to lose him, but at the same time he showed me who he really was as long as I was doing what he wanted. I feel like he isn't the "alpha" even though that fetish was suppose to make him even more the alpha, supposedly. I have tried so hard to get my husband back, but all I can see is him asking what the other guy did and how he did it and my husband trying to be like him. Īfter everything I can't see him in the same light. ![]() But when I finally had enough of him asking when, where I was going to try to meet a new guy, I blew up and confessed I hated sleeping around. I loved the husband he was, he was surprising me all the time, cuddling, getting sweet I love you letters. During this time he was all over me and I loved it. I tried it and tried to make myself like it. So after a few months of him not giving it a rest I agreed. I was living in my bubble thinking my marriage was great. I have never been the type to sleep around, and I was perfectly happy with monogamy. My husband brought up trying this new fetish out.
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